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Most men are internalisers, while most women are externalisers. Men express less than what they feel, while women speak out everything and sometimes more. Your man may not be as transparent as you think. He may have a lot in his mind but he won't express. Men fail to express their emotions even in a relationship. But it's important to know what goes in your man's head for a healthy relationship. Here are few ways to understand your man better.
Worried about being ditched
Women assume that only they are worried about being ditched. Even men are afraid of losing their partners. Instead of telling you he will resort to possessive behaviour or cheating to overcome the fear of losing you. When a man behaves in this way, its a sign for you to give him lots of attention and help him to get over his fears.
Boyfriend image
Men will be men, always a bachelor at heart. They choose to marry for the sake of society, but that are players-at-heart. Given a choice, a man will prefer to have a wife at home and a girlfriend to roam around the town like a bachelor. Actually most men continue to be a child, always needing his mother. No harm there as girls love to be mother.
His friends ogling at you is not acceptable
A man's circle of friends are of prime importance to him. He seeks their approval on every important life decision – including the choice of girlfriend. But none of his friends can oggle at you. And by chance if you happen to smile back then your man will not be sporting. He may act cool on the surface, but he will dump you soon. The reason behind his action is that he cannot handle the fact that you may dump him for the friend. So he dumps you before such a situation arises.
Give me attention
Your relationship cannot be a one-sided affair. Once your man confesses his love for you after the initial chasing around, he expects you to shower some attention on him. If you continue to act pricey he may dump you soon, feeling insecure. So no acting pricey for too long, show him that you too love him.
(AW: Pratima Tigga)
