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Successful marriages have become a rarity with an increase in the incidence of divorces and separations between couples. It's not impossible to have a great married life. All you need is a bit of adjustment in your routine monotonous life.
First step towards long-term relationship is to bring the 'US' in your thoughts and decisions. But make sure you don't lose the 'ME' in your relationship. Or else your marriage will become a burden that you will begin to detest. Read on to know the simple rules of a successful married life.
Rekindle the romance
The initial romance of your dating days will gradually fade as you settle down into married life. The trick to long-term relationship is to never let the spark of your romance die. Try to re-establish the connection with your partner by visiting the same restaurants and theatres. Relive the fond memories of the bygone days. The passion of your courtship days will not come back, but you will be able to spend more 'US' time. Develop a companionship with your spouse and have a rocking marriage.
Never sacrifice your individuality
Being married doesn't mean that you have to sacrifice your individuality. If sport is your passion then continue playing the game even after marriage. Same goes for clothes. If you love wearing a particular type of apparel, continue doing so. Just remember that your individuality should not come in the way of your relationship. For example, you cannot continue to be a casanova after marriage, it won't be accepted.
End quarrels on the same day
It's normal for couples to quarrel over various issues. Fight as much as you like but make sure that you end it on the same day. Don't continue with the quarrel for days. And once you end it don't bring it up again, begin afresh.
Keep communication open
Communication is the lifeline of your relationship. Even when you quarrel with your spouse, keep the channel of communication open. Break in communication can be potentially dangerous for your relationship. Your busy schedule may not allow you to spend much time with each other, so take time out to catch up on each other.
(AW: Pratima Tigga)
