Dating a younger woman, how to make it workRelationship

September 19, 2014 12:30
Dating a younger woman, how to make it work},{Dating a younger woman, how to make it work

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Dating a younger woman can be fun and exhilarating. If you are separated with your date by almost a decade it may require a few caution on your side. Remember she belongs to another generation, so you need to respect her interests, while enjoying the relationship. Here are a few tips to make your relationship work with a younger woman.

Treat her as your equal

You may be more mature than her due to the experience you gathered over the years, but do not treat her condescending. Younger girls may be gullible, but they are not dumb and should not be treated so. Have mutual respect for each other. Be patient, non-judgemental and non-serious to make the most of your relationship.

Splurging cash on her

Being older to her, you definitely will be financially better off. But make sure you dont flaunt the cash and splurge on her mindlessly. You may be able to impress her, especially the college going ones, for a short time. But when you stop she may start thinking you don't care and love her any more. So draw a line as to how much the two of you will spend on each other.

Reveal past relationships

You may have a broken relationship in the past or a divorce you went through. Don't hide it from her when things start to become serious. Let her know about your past. That way you may have no difficulty when its time to propose a serious relationship.

Non-intrusive relationship

Give her lots of space to be her age and do the things she wants to. Times have changed since you were her age, so there will be some madness in her actions. She will look up to you as you are much older, but don't force your opinion on her. Be patient and you will have a rocking relationship with her.

Social awkwardness

People in their 20s prefer clubbing, in 30s it's a pub, and when in their 40s they prefer a jazz record and a cigar for company. But if you are dating a younger person, you may have to revisit your youth. Often the assertive ones try to impose their wishes on their partner, pushing to go to places of their preference. In an ideal situation the couple can go clubbing on Friday nights and Saturday night can be reserved for a quiet lounge. That way none will feel that they are sacrificing for the other person.


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