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Do you find it difficult to date the same women the second time? Are you nervous everytime you go out with women and struggle to say the right words on a first date. You are not alone. There are many out there who make some common mistakes on their first date with a woman. The first date can be exhilarating and stressful at the same time. Here are a few things to avoid on a first date to make her your soul mate.

Be Confident

Confidence attracts, more so on a first date with a woman. All women would want to date a confident and self-assured man. Quit looking around nervously, thinking about other people's opinion. Make eye contact when you meet her and while talking to her. Make sure that you sit and stand straight with alertness. Display a good body language, it looks attractive.

Don't bring the Ex-factor into conversation

The Ex-factor is better left for another day. Women find it difficult to deal with talks related to the ex-girlfriend. Keep the Ex out of your conversation and never ever bad-mouth her. Bringing up your ex-girlfriend suggests that you haven't resolved your past. So she cannot really be sure that you are ready for another woman in your life.

Don't list out your dating history

Women by nature are empathic towards other women. It's rude to talk of your past dates. When you list out your dating history you are being disrespectful to the women you have dated in the past. In the first date, she will not be interested in the ladies with whom you have dated till now. If you talk about women you have dated in the past it can be said for sure that she will definitely not meet you again.

No talks about commitment

Stay clear from serious issues like commitment or settling down soon in your conversations. Talks about commitment in the very first date will definitely scare her away.

Indulge in light-hearted talks in your first date. Make her laugh, it works most of the time. Talk about your hobbies, your free time activities or tell her about a funny incident involving you. Make sure to include her while talking. Direct the conversation towards her so that she talks about herself. Balance in communication has to be there between the two of you. First date is fun, so go out and enjoy the time spent with her. Things will work in your favour.

(AW: Pratima Tigga)